Let's Get Into The Christmas Spirit
It's the most beautiful time of the year... OR is it? If you're a Grinch, all you can see these days is chaos in the shopping malls, lots of people everywhere, unpleasantly slow lines... you might call it Christmas madness. And it puts you in a weird mood. But if you're more in the 'Mariah Carey๐' spirit, you know that the best part of the year is just about to happen! ๐ ๐ When did you become such a Grinch though? I think Christmas is honestly what you make it, and it's always up to you and how you look at it. It's you who sets the Holiday standards and traditions for your family - You can even go stress-free and suggest no gift buying if you hate running errands around Christmas or you can stay at home and watch Home Alone all by yourself if you prefer chilling at Christmas Eve! As far as Santa's concerned, you're a self-righteous human being.
I know, I know, it's not always easy to please everyone around you with their wishes, ideas and projections, then mix them with yours... But it's almost always possible to find a good compromise, so everyone's happy in the end (or, at least the majority of them, LOL). One of my friend's family has cancelled the whole gift giving thing long time ago. They agreed that it only brings them a stressful hustle during this time of the year. They meet up during the Holidays (they're a big family) and they eat a lot of cookies together, watch Christmas movies on TV and simply enjoy each other's company. Then my other friend's family, they are all about giving gifts. ๐ They always compete every year - 'See who gives the best one and who has the best idea!?' Two extremes. I probably wouldn't want neither but hey, it works for them, somehow. I personally LOVE picking and buying gifts, I'm a very generous person when it comes to giving presents to my loved ones, and I genuinely enjoy when someone unwraps what I came up with and it creates a big smile and happy feeling. I usually give personal gifts rather than expensive ones, but sometimes personal means expensive LOL. I think that Christmas should be special for everyone in a way, and that possibly giving someone what they want but can't afford (or wouldn't buy for themselves with their own money ever) is what brings the Christmas joy and magic into life. Christmas is about magical, almost unreal things for me. I'm a hopeless romantic, you know... But for all of you, best is finding balance, like with anything else. Make Christmas what you want it to be so you can truly enjoy this time of the year. I'm sure deep in your heart and mind you know what you desire. Is it a tropical getaway so you don't have to deal with anything family Christmas related? So be it! ๐️ And don't feel guilty. Can't make everyone happy, it's exhausting constantly trying. ๐ค XO Zuzana
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I love the dried oranges idea, it is so dang cute!!! <3
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